hahahaha I FOUND IT! I still can't believe I found it. Thank you so much for reading my book and taking a chance on a new "no-name" author... it's only with your support and others like you that I'll be an old author with a name people know in the world of travel writing... so truly, THANK YOU. Glad my words are encouraging you to get out of your comfort zone. That's when we truly grow, just like an icicle (you'll find my full explanation of this in the last chapter of the book when you get there.)