You don’t know what you don’t know, and I didn’t know these four things before first leaving The States over a decade ago. — I remember what it was like. I remember the swirling worry and anxiety before my first big, unplanned, open-ended, international adventure. I flew into Aruba, a small island just above Colombia’s northern coast, without even having a bed booked for that first night. I leaned into serendipity and started to…